When you are trying to mend your broken relationship, there are some things that are good to do but there are other things that aren’t. It can be a tricky thing getting your ex back, one wrong move and your chances could be completely ruined.
Although it is tempting, you must not repeatedly ring and text your ex. This is a big mistake, but many people make it. The reason they do it is because they’re desperate to speak to their ex and each time they don’t get a response they become more desperate.
It will just push your ex away further if they see you are acting desperate and it will be easy for them to spot. A needy person is not attractive at all, and when you keep pestering your ex, this is how you will come across.
This leads my nicely to one of the things that you should do which is give your ex some space directly after the break up. This is a period where the two of you don’t have any contact for a few weeks. This will allow you both to have a good think about things and calm down.
You will be able to contact your ex sooner or later, and arrange for a meeting between the two of you. Simply suggest a friendly catch-up, nothing to heavy or pushy. It is vital that you stay patient here if you want to get your ex back and don’t go rushing things. It will no doubt take a few times of meeting up before you are comfortable enough to discuss the idea of getting back together.
Whatever happens you need to avoid getting into any kind of conflict or argument. For example, if you get the feeling that your ex isn’t ready to give the relationship another go at the present time just take it on the chin and remain positive.
The relationship is in a very fragile state just after the break up, being bad tempered and arguing with your ex will definitely not help you. Bear in mind that if you end up arguing, you will probably ruin your chances of getting them back so bite your lip if you are ever tempted to challenge them on something they say.